Be Affectionate With Your Girlfriend And Keep Her!
Be Affectionate With Your Girlfriend And Keep Her!
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Falling out of love can happen to any couple regardless of how strong the relationship is. You can recover the magic, but you need to relearn how to be affectionate with your girlfriend to keep her. There are different ways of relearning and also learning for the first time if your relationship was not so affectionate to start with. Ask an older man in a successful relationship for some advice. Talk to your friends – but hey! do yourself a favor and only listen to the ones that have a good relationship. Think about it once – if a guy is not in a relationship – there’s a reason. Or maybe you find a good book, read up on relationships and affection in relationships, and put the theory into practice.
Women are always complicated animals, but the majority of them really love it when you show them affection. I am talking about real affection here, not just a quick hug or a peck on the cheek before sex. You have to remember, sex is something different to a woman than it is to a man. In a relationship with strong affection, women often use sex to show their affection and appreciation; men are less likely to think that deeply about it. They tend to only care about whether it was good, or if it they got any! If your woman is angry or hurt or upset about something, you will usually be able to gauge it from the response she shows to your advances. If she usually initiates the lovemaking, but has ignored it recently, you can bet that there is something wrong somewhere. It may not be your fault, but “it’s your fault” regardless.
If you find a good book about relationships, you will discover that one way to get more sex at home is to do more things around the house and don’t leave it all to her. Another way is to show your affection publicly when she least expects it. For example, holding her hand on a walk, carry her shopping bags, pick her up from work if it is raining, or buy flowers for her, even though it isn’t a special day – that will help make it a special day with no other reason. Also, make sure you spend more time together doing something that both of you really like.
Most romantic relations don’t fail because of outside affairs or other external happenings, but because some of – or even alot of – the little things are not there any more, and the fire goes out. If you have the impression that the two of you are drifting apart, don’t be afraid get some professional help or advice on how you can put everything back on track. It is important that you don’t ignore the obvious signs of unhappiness, and just wish they will disappear. They won’t. She will! It is remarkably easy for women to feel ignored, and even worse, taken for granted. The problem may have nothing to do directly with your relationship – it may be that you are overloaded by your job or your financial situation. If she feels that you are not interested any more, she may have the impression that you have another woman in your life. Or maybe she just feels like you are using her? Be honest with yourself AND with the woman you love. Are you only nice to her or show her the affection she desires when you are hoping to get some sex? That will only lead to a disaster!
So, how do you get the love and affection that you want back into your relationship? There are many ways to achieve this, but maybe the one that has the best chance of success is to pretend you are dating again. How did you treat your lady when you first met? If she is still with you, you must have been doing something right – at least up to now!
You need to find out – right now! – how to be affectionate with your girlfriend and keep her, or somebody else is likely to walk away with her before you know it!
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